Thursday, June 19, 2008

I have a theory... I feel we all are about as happy as we let ourselves to be. And in relationships, this holds a lotta water. Ok, since you are pulling those confused faces at this logic, let me enlighten ye... Hold on... who knows, this might win the nobel prize or something....

The secret to a very happy relationship is... ta-da-da...(*drumroll*)... BEING YOURSELF!!!!! YIPPPEEE!!!! There. I made my point. er... ahem... Not exactly earth-quaking, eye-popping, heart-clutching revelation. But a revelation, none the less amigo.

Here goes. We should completely let go of our inhibitions while in a solid relationship. And that holds for any kind of them under the sun. Be it with your parents. Be it with your sibling. Be it with your boyfriend or spouse... Its the hang-ups that hold us back. And eventually, we spend the entire time thinking about how to impress the other person, rather than just act upon our gut feelings. You see, that other person probably knows you better than well.... you. And he/ she doesn't give a rat's ass if you are not wearing that in color of the season, he/ she doesn't care whether you..heck... let out that tiny fart. No need to go red. Just go Talking. Communication people. That's the most important key and i guess we have forgotten the combination on that lock. We keep ourselves cooped up.

Gosh! After coming to the fag end of this piece, I suddenly very agony-auntish or one of those "loove gurus" on the FM channels!!!! hehehehe

But guess, we can all do with a little love. Eh?

9 comments:

Trinnie said...

All you need is Love.... so said John Lennon... how true!

Hey M, arent you a Delhiite? Im in Delhi, by the way... working...I had almost forgotten I had a blog life before I started slogging for this workaholic news wire... sigh... been a month here now!

Take care girl!

PS: I love your blog template! awesome!

--xh-- said...

true.. not really earth shattering, eye popping out revelation, but nonetheless, a true one.
Have experienced it firsthand...

the key to happy relation is not to pretend, and be what u r, without any inhibitions...

singlewheatfemale said...

@ trinnie:
yeah girl.. m a red-blooded delhiite... so.... u here?? how nice rey!!! cool whr do u work???

and muchos gracias abt the template compliment. me like it too :)

U take care girl and yeah where doth you blog be???

rags2glitches said...

ha!... somehow i feel very smug after readin this!!!! u know y!!!!! :)

Prixie said...

you are right...but then again we do show different sides of yourselves. for example, we would not act the same when we are with our friends compared to when we are with our grandparents.

Trinnie said...

yello!

I work with the Press Trust of India (PTI)... Sansad Marg... Yeah I'm a journalist... feel so much pride saying this! :D

my blog... well its gone for a toss... the same URL and a new one too... browneyedkiyoshi.blogspot.com
tho its redundant... I dunno how many of my locks will go white before i resume blogging... stress!

but i shall come around like a spectre does, to comment, or just say HI!

:D

TC!

Abhishek said...

Serious and thought provoking stuff here!! Nice one!!! :)

The Organ Harvester said...

but you know there is always one person in the relationship who wants you to be something or someone else. i like to keep the crazy packed away. let it out on a pro-rata basis.

Jo said...

Thanks so much for your visit and for leaving a comment to I could follow you back to your blog.... I like what I have read and plan on sticking you on my blog roll so I can find my way back to read some more.

Very good advice in this posting. As a seasoned member of the human race, I might also add that We are each responsible for our own happiness. So many relationships fail because one of those involved are expecting the other to fetch that happiness to them like some sort of retriever. Have a great day and I hope you stop by to visit again.