Monday, February 27, 2006

Shattered...

My ma just came back from this jyotishi, and had very troubling news...Apparently, he can tell about a person's personality without even seeing or meeting him or her. He just requests for the birthdate of the person.
The seer had this to say about me:-
1) I am in love with a man. He is a non-bengali, unlike me. And he is of bad charecter.
I might make some mistake (i.e. sleep with him or something) if I am not careful enough.
2) I am not focused at all, on my goals.
3) I am too fickle-minded.
4) I will do well in the line of journalism.
5) These ups and downs will continue to happen in my life, till I turn 24 years.


Ok, I am too shattered and broken to continue any further. But still I am trying hard not to fall to pieces.

Because, after this incident my mother is on me to reveal my secrets. When , actually there are none.

1) I am not in love with anybody, presently.
2) I am out of focus. God forbid the day I stop being focused, I will seize to breathe.
3) Right now, the only thing on my mind is MBA.


I am burning from within. I am angered. I am provoked.


Right now, I feel there is no need for me to continue with blogging, if they say its distracting me from my path.

38 comments:

AlterinG Abhishek said...

OK
few thing!
the seer here
:-)
1. You definately will be very famous.Why coz the passionin u is so very visible from from Blog which i am seeing the first time!

2. Its this passion that can help u crack the CAT

3. Build a skill and aptitue to share and talk to your mom and smartly no telling her stuff you think is not wrong but she may percieve in a different way, coz the way she may !

GOD BLESS

dazedandconfused said...

Wow! I don't know what to say. But I guess mothers are always like that with their daughters. My mom constantly worries about my sis who's 23, for pete's sake! She can take care of herself. Of course, the smart thing that my sis managed to do was to now live and work in a different city:)

so wats ur CAT/GMAT plan?

wormtongue said...

buhahahaha..:P horrorscopes :))... these useless jyotishis have no better kaam dhanda wot!! messing up nice and messed up lives even more. sheeesh. this one friend of mine has been forbidden to ride two wheelers because his doom is predicted on them. i still remember the look on his face when i finaly allowed him to ride my khatara cycle!! ( i wasnt gonna have no blood on my hands.. :P horroscope or NO horroscope).... if i were in your place, i wouldve had a nice big laugh at this.. but i guess thats me.. and this is YOU. chalta hai.. and bas kya yaar.. dont think of quitting blogging now :p

elfstone said...

well I guess you are not in love with me then ...

cause I am of very good character :)


Anyway I wont get into much of a depression hearing this ... and would like you to know that

an mba requires you to be quite expressive. these blogs will help you write better essays etc if you think of gmat and foreign mbas

cheers, eternal love :)

B said...

u dont need to stop blogging, coz u r jus venting out ur feelings, which is good. having opinion of more than 3 ppl on anything is good. so ur blogfrds r commenting.. n its gud to think abt different perspectives. First of all, my mom also believes this much in such stuff. So dont blame ur ma. another thing, MBA is on ur mind, so plz let it be and do it. And its disturbing me to see some1 so educated to feel so burdened coz of some1 who predicts some shit. even i had a pundit predict my future on my birthtime. not all of it is true. tell ur mom u respect her, but now, its torturing u. she'll understand it!

from the kind of genuine comments u've got, u shud continue blogging.

and the position u r in, is not that bad. so plz dont be sad. a lot of ppl have a lot of big prbs in life.

B said...

and what if he hadnt told that ur life was going to be uncool till u turn 24? what shit. some of those pundits even tell some guys that ur life wont be good till u turn 39.... now, thats a crap. and if ur mom believes in such things, tell her what happens is in the destiny. no one can change it. so stop worrying that much. and enjoy and do good deeds. i hope am not being rude.

Sunny said...

Since when did the day of a person's birth and the position of the sun, stars, planets and a few arbit moons start deciding the fate of his/her blog?

Leave alone the fate of his/her life.

And abt the career path... umm... do a google search on ur date of birth... I'm sure u'll find lots of successful ppl from all walks of live sharing ur bday.

Cheers!

singlewheatfemale said...

first of all... a big sloppy kiss and a bear hug to every one!!! Gaaawd, I don't know what I was saying yesterday...

singlewheatfemale said...

Abhishek: thanks a lot man, First up on my blog comments i read urs and it sota clickes into place...

singlewheatfemale said...

Andy: yup, I can just understand. and its not just about girls, but we will be always kids for our peeps, even if we turn 45!!!

singlewheatfemale said...

wormtongue: buhahaha from my side too. :) thanks a ton for that push up... and you did scare me a little with that bike story of your pal. btw, what finally did happen to him??:p

singlewheatfemale said...

archangel: ok first up, you were not preachy at all. ok pass, a little bit :P
but yeah, this sorta thing has happened to most of us... so no sense, losing my sweat on it... thanks dude. :p muuaah

singlewheatfemale said...

Thulika: I am impraaased and all... hmmm I feel all shitty n stuff, you know about going on n on yesterday... so thanks a lot sweetheart for that tonic. :p
cheers!!!

singlewheatfemale said...

elfstone: as I said earlier I am only in love with that "back", not anything else. mind. and yeah, some of that writing of yours too!!!
hehehehe!!! :p
but thanks anyways for the pep talk. and yeah hopefully, this blogging WILL help me with my essays for GMAT and all...

singlewheatfemale said...

hey girl, who's bothered about anybody gettin rude. You speaking your mind-- helps me. guess what, I am seriously contemplating going over to that pundit and kickin him in his unholy place!!!

singlewheatfemale said...

sunny: cheers to you buddy. thanks a lot for the ups and the kicks!! and yeah, i wouldn't mind doind that google search after all...
halaluuyah!!! I am back!!! muuah :p

Anshuman said...

surprising that u r getting so perturbed at such a thing ... pretty stupid actually ..

Anshuman said...

hey maddy ... i just saw ur reply to my comment in the previous post ... ur the same one? mad-ban ?

Aditi said...

OHHH I totally sympathise, one jyotishi told my mom that if i didnt get married this year, i wouldnt till i turned 31 so imagine the panic in my household. On top of it another said that if i didnt do a jaap daily I would forever live in turmoil and whimsical decisions would be the bane of my existence. I think jyotishis are the bane of my existence but that is besides the point.
Stars lay the guidelines for our existence, we still make what we will on our own..=)

Ethan said...

I can totally empathize. But some of the stuff in my case turned true . Some panditji predictied that ill go to states for higher education , will fall in love with a person who will be elder to me , and before my mom could skip a beat he tells her , "They will break off in jan 2005" and in what month ill get a job.
i went abroad and everysingle thing came true inluding the month when we broke off. I was shown all this by my mom last week(i am here for a vacation) , diary entry dated aug 2002.

I never belived in all this until this happened. Now i dont know what to believe and what not to.
This guy has been our family jyotshi for years.

I believe that you write your own destiny and still think no one can tell anything about someone's future.
But then how do you explain some thing like this. The things he predicted are too specific to condone.

singlewheatfemale said...

anshuman: yup its the sweet ol' me, mad ban!! where the hell did you coin that kinda name. I am on my feet again today. feeling a lot better, thanks.
nahiiiiiiiiiii!!!! you saying I am gettin perturbed, stupid thing???? aaaaarrrrgh.

but hmmm maybe you are right... let me go check!! :p

AlterinG Abhishek said...

OO KAY!
well ethan.. instances like urs do surprise lots!! causing lots to flip between faith and un-faith.

somehow these seers do touch nearly everyonz lifzz..
minz been long and does and does not match..
LOLz
it goes like

- Keep him away from girls,,(hahah)

- he will have a strong affair ( 1998) and will get married by 99-2000( BuHuauahahah!!),though i did hv supposed strong relation..

- if that does not..then again there is similar inflection..leading to pukka marriage in 2001-02..

-If that does not happen...then thank you so much.. u'll be single thru ur life...

- well currently i am single...( hahah)

singlewheatfemale said...

aditi: ya I totally empathise with you girl. I say. if destiny was in the stars, then we could fly sooner than we did!!!
:) cheers pal. and thanks...

Kay Vee said...

shhee this is bad stuff! let it not affect you yaar!
well someone jyotishi told my mum that im going to famous wen i turn 22!! haha so now im eagerly waiting to turn 22!wat crap! i mean one needs to work hard or show visible efforts to get rich and famous and me is well...umm...a lazy bum! hehe
and yeah also told my mum that im gonna get married wen i turn 21 or something. if i dont get married then, then i wont get married till 28-29 and i had my mom pestering and boring me on the topic of marriage!! sheesh...but me moms practical in way too to believe in all dat balderdash, but it did get me worried for some time...
and im just 18 yaar!hmmpph!!
so chill..we write our own destiny's!!
shitint.

Kay Vee said...

AND PLEASE DO NOT LEAVE BLOGGING!!

singlewheatfemale said...

see ethan man, these is not a topic for debate. Its about perceptions, and beliefs.
The thing that came true for you is ok, and one in thousands of instances, and vice-versa... so there, thanks a lot sweety for the story and perk-up.
cheers,
muuah :)

singlewheatfemale said...

thanks again Abhi for that enlightening story!!!
muuuaah and cheers!!! :)

singlewheatfemale said...

Nope shitrint, I don't think i can give of blogging.... Now, wherver did you get that idea??? :p

AlterinG Abhishek said...

story!!!!

Kay Vee said...

oye u only said naa "Right now, I feel there is no need for me to continue with blogging, if they say its distracting me from my path."
?????
HMMM...
i kno u wont leave blogging especially after the support ur getting from friends like us...
??

Darth Midnightmare said...

lol. If these chaps were accurate, I'd be the richest man alive by now ;-)

B said...

kick his UNHOLY place... girl u got some! u r hilarious :d:d

singlewheatfemale said...

midnightmare: hehehe I agree... btw, you din't leave any story of yours here.. well its ok, I guess. I mean, I am ok, ahem, OK!!!

singlewheatfemale said...

GIRL: buhahahaha!!!!

Vishnu said...

dont take those things to your head too much....

juz play while you play, work you work thats it!


Cheers!
:)

singlewheatfemale said...

Vishnu: yup, thats me... work hard, play harder!!! :)

jugni said...

hey lady dont be upset. i can understand what ur goin thru.if i culd u bout me my cous. told my mom ur daughter will marry someone out of her religion. every time a guy calls me she has her nightmares.she often cries saying beta ghar ki izat ka sawal hai.then some jyotishi has said her i will study a lot , pata nahi kis janam ka badla leh raha hai jyotshi mujhseh.
dont worry babes dont think bout it .life is in our hand believe me . i can tell u jyotshi also old my mom my sis wont clear her eng. papers nd she did pretty well. he was astonished when we told him he said the starts were against her but she did it.have faith in god and dont believe in all this.

wormtongue said...

what happened the the bike pal of mine.. well the day he took my bike, he disappeared for about 20 mins which left all of imagining things like maybe he got crushed under a truck and is probably lying dying somewhere or something.. :P or maybe he ran into a hot busty chick and was udaoing rang raliyaan with her somwhere. )*&%(^$... but turned out he was fine and had taken a nice big ride almost all over our area :)... we never gave him a bike to ride ever again... and hes pretty much alive.. blogs too :p name is viggy :P .. da petuman